Pregnancy loss fucking sucks. It sucks when it happens to you and it also sucks when it happens to the people you love. Please don’t let the title mislead you, there is no blueprint for how you should respond when you experience a pregnancy loss, just as there is no blueprint for how exactly you should respond when a loved one experiences pregnancy loss. However, there are ways to begin exploring how you can support yourself and your loved ones when coping with a miscarriage.